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5 Reasons Why Her Libido is Never On

Is your girlfriend avoiding sex? Find out why!

No, women do not avoid sex simply because they are women. It is a lie. If anyone ever told you that women do not enjoy sex, then they were lying. They do and they should! And if they are not, then you might be having a problem.

Well, we understand. You are also probably unhappy about this. I mean, if her libido is never on, then it affects you too, right?


Do not let that happen! And do not let low libido ruin your sexual life and the sexual life of your girlfriend. So, what can you do in order to deal with this issue? First of all, you should try to find out what is causing her low sexual desire. Here are some basic reasons:

  1. Routine. We are sorry, but it is true. If she is bored, then you will probably need to get more creative. Start with talking. Are you talking about sex? If not, then now it is the right time to start!
  2. Trauma. Did anything happen in her life or in her previous relationship that causes her to feel scared? Perhaps it is the reason of her low libido. Talk to her!
  3. Stress. Perhaps she has a lot of going on at work or something bad in the family is happening. Believe it or not, women cannot relax and enjoy sex if they are preoccupied with other issues. Perhaps you could help her by doing something nice. Clean the apartment, cook dinner. Do anything that will help her relax. Give her some time for herself.
  4. Expectation of pain. Perhaps she has some serious medical issue that causes her to feel pain during sex. If this is the case, then you will probably need to talk to her and persuade her to go see a doctor.
  5. Problems in your relationship. Perhaps she is angry with you. Well, we are sorry to tell you this, but it may be one of the reasons.

Anyway, no matter what the reason is, the thing you need to do is consult with your girlfriend. Be her support! Everything can be solved if you try!